Uncle Thor's Lessons, Anecdotes and Humor

A gift is a token of esteem. By our tradition, it is done with the benefit of the receiver in mind. We give with the intent of doing good. That takes thought and an appreciation of the beneficiary of our largesse. “What would he like?” “What would be useful to him?” “Is there something he wants that he cannot get, but that I can get for him?” These are some of the thoughts that guide us in choosing gifts. We might not think of them in these exact terms, but we do think of them.

The Havamal echoes this wonderfully. “A guest has arrived…” We are counseled to see to the guest’s well-being and comfort. Again and again, we are reminded that generosity is thoughtful and considerate.